Perfect, that seems to be working now, i noticed that the by pressing the Remote connections icon it dosnt download it, it gets stuck, but once i found the extension “Open Remote - SSH” in the extension list everything seems to be working, also noticed that the Remote - SSH extension from microsoft conflicts with the open remote extension, so remving the microsoft extension and then installing the correct one solved the issue, it was imported from vs code when i fresh installed cursor.
Thanks for the help!